Just keep swimming

Maddy and Molly were back to our local community theatre recently as part of the cast for Finding Nemo Jr. This show was adorable and one of my favorite theatre for youth shows, not just because my children were in it!

Auditions were held in April, with callbacks the following day. Both girls were excited to receive callbacks! But the real excitement came when they received phone calls inviting them to join the cast. Maddy was thrilled to be offered the role of Peach the Starfish, a member of the tank gang. And we were so surprised and over the moon when Molly was offered the role of Nemo.

Maddy has loved theatre since she performed in her first show seven years ago. Molly did a few shows and then decided to dedicate her time to drumming, before deciding to audition for Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer earlier in the year. She was cast as young Rudolph and remembered how much she loved the stage. She went on to audition for and be cast in Chitty Chitty Bang Bang (her first mainstage show), and was so excited to audition for Finding Nemo. She couldn’t believe she got the role of Nemo!

Finding Nemo the movie just had its 20th anniversary! If you are unfamiliar with the story, Marlin is a clownfish who finds himself as a single father to a baby clownfish after a barracuda attacks his wife and their eggs. One egg is left, but it is damaged. This results in the baby, Nemo, having one damaged fin.

Marlin is a bit neurotic about keeping his son safe (as I can imagine one would be after witnessing the rest of one’s family being destroyed). So when it’s time for Nemo to start school, Marlin is a bit nervous. When he finds out Nemo’s class is going to the dropoff, he rushes there to remind Nemo he can’t do the same things as his friends because of his little fin.

This makes Nemo mad, and he swims off to show his dad he can do those things, only to get fishnapped by a diver. In the movie, he is taken to a tank in an orthodontist’s office, but in the musical it is to an aquarium. There, he meets the tank gang, led by Gil. Gil also has a damaged fin and is cooking up a plan to get them all out of the tank and back to the ocean.

Meanwhile, Marlin is frantically searching for his son. He meets Dory, a blue tang who is bubbly, but has a problem with short-term memory. She offers to help Marlin, and together they encounter sharks and jellyfish, ride the EAC with sea turtles, and swim across the ocean in search of Nemo.

In the tank, Gil’s plan successfully helps Nemo escape back into the ocean and to his dad. Father and son are reunited, and with Dory, head home to start over again.

My favorite part of their casting was that all of Maddy’s scenes were with Molly. As Peach, Maddy acts sort of as the “mama” of the tank gang. She’s concerned with ensuring Nemo feels safe after he’s kidnapped. And some of their favorite theatre friends were cast as members of the tank gang, too, so it was extra fun.

This show was a big one, with more than 60 cast members. But it was so much fun!

The theatre’s costumer is outstanding, and it is always amazing to see her creativity at work. Who knew pool noodles could make adorable octopus tentacles? As usual, she knocked it out of the park with the costuming.

And the set, while simple, was so beautiful. The background for the tank gang was my favorite. It looked just like the tank in the movie!

The girls had the best time getting to do this show with some of their favorites on the production staff and some of their favorite theatre friends. They also made lots of new friends along the way.

I was so nervous for Molly since this was such a big role, but she took that stage with no fear and killed it each time! They performed 12 shows in a week, and it was beautiful every time. I cried every time Molly belted out the song “That’s My Dad.”

Since Molly was Nemo, she got to have some fun promoting the show. She even got to go on one of our local radio stations with the theatre’s education director!

I mainly worked backstage for this one, helping the kids with costumes, mics, etc. But we did take Patrick to see it for Father’s Day. Molly bought him an adorable shirt to wear, and he was one proud daddy!

The girls had lots of friends and family come to see them in this one, including some of their older theatre friends who have graduated from theatre for youth productions. Molly’s favorite part of every show was the meet and greet after – she loved having people ask for pictures with her!

I was so impressed with this entire production, but man oh man did my girls shine in this one. Maddy’s sweet voice was perfect in her tank gang songs, and I still can’t believe Molly tackled this big role at only 9. But this show was cast so perfectly! The actor who played Marlin was able to capture his love for Nemo paired with his frantic need to keep him safe. And our Dory was spectacular! Her voice was beautiful and she captured her character so perfectly.

We loved, loved, loved this show! It was beautiful and really was one of my favorite theatre for youth shows. We closed the show on Sunday, and the girls woke up bright and early Monday morning – Molly has theatre camp and Maddy is volunteering at it. We just can’t stay away from the theatre!

The best night of Molly’s life…

When you turn 8 in our family, you go on an adventure. It started with Maddy, who was gifted tickets to see Frozen on Broadway for her 8th birthday (that’s a story for another day). Covid delayed Regina’s until she was almost 9, and it almost threw Molly’s adventure for a loop, too.

If you know Molly, you know that she is a unique kid. She knows what she likes and doesn’t care if other people think it’s weird. She’s wise beyond her years and frequently seems like a grown-up trapped in a kid’s body (her words). When other 4-year-olds were singing along to whatever music 4-year-olds listen to, Molly discovered Ben Platt. We listened to the Dear Evan Hansen soundtrack constantly. She’s loved him ever since. So much so that when we moved back from Fishhawk, she opted to decorate her room with pictures of Ben. She was 5 at the time.

5-year-old Molly’s wall – Ben watched over her as she slept 🙂

When Ben released his first solo album, Molly and I fell in love. We listened to it all the time. It was our favorite soundtrack for singing and dancing while cooking. Then his Madison Square Garden concert special came out. Molly wished and wished for Ben to go on tour so she could see him.

As luck would have it, he announced a tour after the release of his second album. The Reverie tour was going around the country, and it was scheduled to be in Tampa the week before Molly’s 8th birthday. It seemed like fate! So, we looked up VIP packages and offered that to Molly as her 8th birthday adventure. She didn’t even hesitate!

Unfortunately, Covid threw us for a loop, as Ben had to postpone his tour. Every show was being rescheduled, minus 2 or 3. And of course, one of them not getting rescheduled was ours. Cue a bit of panic from mama and a bit of despair from Molly – she was crushed thinking her dream wasn’t going to come true. We actually booked a getaway at a Disney resort as a placement, just in case. But luckily, the Orlando concert got rescheduled and I was able to score the same VIP package for the new concert. She’d have to wait a few months, but we knew it would be worth it.

I’ll be honest, I have never in my life spent as much money on concert tickets as I did for this concert. But, Patrick and I figured we had spent at least the same amount on her sisters’ adventures, so if this was what Molly wanted, that’s what she’d get. And what 8-year-old doesn’t want to be a VIP for a night?!

The concert was on a school night (bonus!), and we found a great deal on a hotel a block away from the arena, so Molly and I packed up and headed over to check in and get ready for her experience. The description told us that we would get exclusive tour merchandise, an autographed Reverie album, VIP lanyard, VIP lounge with food and drink, exclusive shopping time at the merch booth, and best of all, a meet and greet with Ben.

Molly took her time getting ready and planned what she thought was the perfect outfit.

We made our way to the arena to get checked in. Part of the agreement in being a VIP was getting Covid tested prior to the VIP activities, so we joined the line of eager fans and willingly took Covid tests. I had a bit of a panic wondering what I’d do if my test somehow came back positive and Molly’s was fine. I went through my list of friends in Orlando I’d call to come take my place! Luckily, all was well and after getting the results, we sat to wait for everyone else to get tested. Once everyone was checked in, we got our lanyards and got to go shopping at the merch table before anyone else was in the arena. Molly managed to be very first in line and bought herself a shirt (her Tuesday theatre class uniform now), some cute I love Ben buttons, and a hoodie for Maddy.

The “exclusive tour merch” turned out to be a bucket had and a Reverie pin. We then headed to the reception for some food and drink prior to the concert. This was definitely geared toward grownups and not the kind of food Molly would typically eat. We had a couple of bites, grabbed some waters, and then decided to make our way to find our seats and something else to eat. On our way, we ran into one of Molly’s favorite theatre people!

Our seats were in the second row but felt like we were practically on stage. It was pretty amazing! The opening act was Aly and AJ and they were a great way to kick off the night.

The security guard working our area was fantastic and let Molly go right up to the barrier at the stage so she got the best view. When Ben came out, I wasn’t sure her little heart would be able to take it!

Her very favorite person was right there, right in front of her. She didn’t stop smiling the entire night! And you guys, holy cow – what a show! I mean, we knew Ben could sing, but he is just an amazing performer. And his backup singers – holy cow! I’d see them anytime, too.

This was definitely a magical night! The highlight was when Ben sang his song Share Your Address (which happens to be our mutual favorite), and he stopped and pointed at Molly when he sang “I just wanna stare at your face” and then he pointed to me for the next line “And spend quality time with your mother.” I didn’t think Molly would recover!

He also sang one of our favorite musical theatre songs, She Used to Be Mine, from Waitress. Everything about the night was so incredible. His performance was one neither of us will forget. He had so much energy, and Molly had the time of her life singing and dancing her little heart out. I think I spent as much time watching her as I did watching him!

My favorite photo of the night – she was enraptured the entire show.

When the concert was over, we waited for a bit for our VIP handler to gather all of the VIPS so we could head to the best part of the night – the meet and greet. But not before one of the stage crew spotted Molly and made sure she got a setlist! I think some of the other VIPS were a little annoyed that she got it, but hey – it pays to be as cute as Molly!

Before you go into the room to meet Ben, you have to leave all of your personal belongings on a table outside. Molly was SO nervous as we waited. When it was finally our turn, she was toot stunned to even speak. She was so overwhelmed with meeting her favorite person! I told him she’s loved him since she was 4 and he thanked her for listening to his music and being a fan, then complimented her on her cute space buns and awesome Dr. Martens boots.

You guys, we actually met Ben! A night we’ll never forget!!

After of course, she thought of all the things she wanted to say to him. But she was on cloud 9 and couldn’t stop grinning from ear to ear. We collected our autographed albums and headed back to our hotel. We couldn’t stop talking about what an amazing night it was!

Washington DC day 4

Our final day wasn’t a day to rest. We still had plenty to see, and since our flight didn’t leave until 7, we packed a full day in.

One of the places I wanted to take the girls most was Arlington National Cemetary. Patrick and I went there on our anniversary trip, and I’m not sure there is a place to make you feel more patriotic than this. I honestly had no idea how much it would move me. The girls researched and were very intrigued by the changing of the guard ceremony, so we made sure we factored that into our time there.

There is something to intriguing about this ceremony, and the girls sat attentive to what was happening. I think Regina counted every step because she didn’t believe it is as truly precise as it is.

It started to drizzle, and since it was already a bit chilly, we didn’t spend as much time visiting as we otherwise would have. But, we did take the girls to President Kennedy’s grave so they could see the eternal flame.

After Arlington we Ubered to where Patrick most wanted to take the girls – the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception. I had never been there, but Patrick had been many times on his childhood trips to visit family friend Father Dennis. We started by visiting Catholic University for lunch. The girls were very impressed by the Chick Fil A, while Patrick and I loved that they had fresh sushi!

The Basilica is breathtaking! We spend a lot of time exploring and taking everything in. Regina, Molly and I stumbled upon the Adoration chapel and spent a few minutes in prayer before continuing on.

After the Basilica, we headed back to the city. We had a bit of time before we needed to be at the airport, so we asked the girls what they wanted to do. They all agreed they wanted to go back to the Museum of the American Indian, so we spent our last couple of hours there.

This was such a fantastic trip! I love visiting new places with the girls, and this one was definitely special. Listening to them talk about our country, and hearing their insights and opinions fills me with a lot of hope for our future. I can’t wait to go back to explore everything we couldn’t fit in!

Washington DC Day 3

Since Patrick and I have been to DC before, we really wanted this trip to be led by the girls and what they wanted to do. They all wanted to tour the White House and Capitol. Unfortunately, our senator couldn’t get us a White House tour as they were all booked for the week we were there. But, we did get a time for a Capitol tour. Our time was 11:30, which wasn’t ideal because it didn’t give us much time to do anything prior, as museums don’t open until 10 and they ask you to be at the Capitol 30-45 minutes before your tour for security.

We took a lovely morning walk and had plenty of time to check in for our tour, so when we happened upon the National Botanic Garden, we decided we should stop in and check it out. It was beautiful and Maddy would have stayed all day. We didn’t have a ton of time, but would love to explore more on a later trip.

Then it was on to the Capitol. Since we were told to be there 30-45 minutes early, we assumed there would be long lines and security would take a while. That wasn’t the case at all – we were through in no time and went to figure out where we were supposed to be for our tour. Luckily, they had some open spots in an earlier tour so let us go on that one.

I was pleasantly surprised at how easy it was to get the tour scheduled. We went through our senator’s office, Senator Marco Rubio. His website has a place to request and it was very simple. I actually had to have it rescheduled because the first time they accidentally made it for the wrong month. But they corrected it right away!

The tour starts in a theater, with a video on American democracy. Honestly, I thought it was the best part of the tour. It does a great job of explaining how different the concept of American government was, and what we should all be striving for.

Then, the big group gets separated into a few smaller groups with a tour guide to lead each one. Our tour guide was fantastic, and we saw some interesting things. However, if we were planning it now, knowing what all the tour encompasses (or rather, what it doesn’t), I’d skip the tour unless you manage to score a private your from your senator or representative’s office. Next time, we’ll ask for that.

You start in the crypt, which is interesting. I had no idea that the original plan was for George Washington to be buried underneath the Capitol. But, since he died years before the building was finished, his family opted not to have his body moved (totally understandable). Also, I think it would be the antithesis of what George Washington would have wanted. Didn’t he resign because he didn’t want to be elevated to status of king, after all?

This is where George Washington would have been buried – there would have been a spot to look down into it, apparently.

Next, you head to the Rotunda, which is quite an impressive room. Our tour guide stopped us right near a statue of Harry Truman, and under the painting of the signing of the Declaration of Independence. This is an image we’ve all seen before, but in person it is huge and gorgeous. The room and the rotunda are so impressive. The attention to detail in all of the artwork and architecture is impressive!

Molly’s favorite portion of the tour was Statuary Hall. All she wanted was to find the statue of Rosa Parks. Molly did a biography report on Rosa Parks and dressed up like her earlier in the year, and she has been in love with her ever since. And bonus, the statue is right next to the Florida statue of Dr. Mary McLeod Bethune.

The girls were disappointed we didn’t get to see more of the Capitol and that we didn’t catch a glimpse of anyone important. But, now we know to ask for a private tour next time. But we did walk by the Supreme Court on the way to our next stop!

Our next stop was the National Museum of American History. This was the museum I was most excited to take the girls to. I love pop culture and weird history, and loved this museum so much when Patrick and I visited several years ago. Honestly though, it was underwhelming this time. I felt like there was WAY too much pop culture, with not enough emphasis on why or how that pop culture relates to our history and culture in general. There were some cool aspects, but it also has become a bit overwhelming and hard to take everything in. The girls enjoyed seeing things like Evan’s cast from Dear Evan Hansen, Dorothy’s ruby slippers, and Prince’s guitar.

One of the things Molly was most interested in seeing was Michelle Obama’s inaugural gown. I think the President and First Lady exhibits are some of the most interesting.

The other exhibit Molly and Maddy were most excited to see is the lunch counter. The last time I was there, I felt like this was out in the middle of the museum. This time we stumbled upon it – it’s tucked into a back area of the museum and seemed like it was put there almost as an afterthought. I was a bit disappointed in that.

The girls enjoyed exploring the maker space in the museum before we left.

We walked a LOT this day, and everyone was tired and chilly. We had some time before our dinner reservation, so when we stumbled upon the National Portrait Gallery, we went in. There is a beautiful atrium where we rested for a bit. But. I knew I couldn’t be there without seeing the portraits of the Obamas! Patrick, Regina, and Molly opted to stay put (poor Molly kept telling us that her little body wasn’t made to walk that much!), but Maddy and I decided to go exploring. I’m so glad we did! Not only did we find the Obama portraits, we found some others of people we love.

We ended the evening with one of our most favorite family dinners ever. Patrick’s co-workers suggested dinner at Carmine’s, and it did not disappoint! The food is served family style and we definitely misjudged the amount of food that was appropriate for our family. But it was delicious! And it’s a lovely restaurant – we had a great dinner, good drinks, and enjoyed recapping our day over an insane amount of food. I highly recommend checking out Carmine’s!

Washington D.C. Day 2

Day 2 in Washington D.C. started with what Regina wanted to do most – visit Ford’s Theater. When we discussed the trip, all Regina cared about was seeing the place where “Mr. Lincoln died,” as she kept telling us. Ford’s Theatre is one of the places that requires timed entry tickets, so we made our reservations for 9:30 and headed that way.

I’ll be honest, this was not the stop I was most excited about. However, I was pleasantly surprised. You begin your tour in the basement of the theater, where there is a great museum set up. It tells the story of what led up to the assassination, and we all learned plenty that we didn’t know before.

The girls took their time looking at everything, but we did have to hurry towards the end because the theater portion was only remaining open for an additional 30 minutes. I didn’t know it is still a working theater, and there was a performance that night. So, we headed upstairs to view the theater from the mezzanine.

After the theatre, you head across the street to the home where President Lincoln died. Someone told Regina that there was still blood on the pillow in the room where he died, so she was very intrigued. However, her macabre hopes were dashed – we didn’t see any. After the home, there is another museum to walk through that ends with a pillar of books written about Lincoln. All in all, I’m glad we made this a stop. I’d recommend adding it to a visit if you’ve never been.

Next up was the Smithsonian National Museum of Natural History. We knew the girls would love this one and figured they’d want to spend a good amount of time here, so we didn’t plan too much after. Regina was hoping for the Spy Museum that afternoon, but mama didn’t realize that was also a timed entry and there were no times available later that day. There is SO much to see in this museum, and easy to get separated from your group. We actually lost Regina for a bit when she decided she was tired of the ocean room and took it upon herself to move on. Cue a bit of panic because the museum was packed (so many school groups from all over the country everywhere we went), and Regina is 11 and doesn’t have a cellphone yet. So, when we found her (probably about 8-10 minutes of panic), we explained that she has to remain with one of the three people who have a phone so we can find her!

I think everyone’s favorite part of the museum was the early humans. Molly got a great lesson on how early mothers protected their children and made clothes before tools (teeth apparently – the museum docent told us they can tell by the wear patterns on teeth that they were used as early tools). We loved seeing the smaller humans of New Guinea who were so small one of their main predators was the komodo dragon! But we forgot to take a photo. I think it is so interesting to see where we’ve come from and where we are now. The girls love the Egyptian room, the dinosaur fossils, but were very disappointed in the Hope Diamond. They were expected something much grander!

Everyone was starving, so we headed outside to look for food. Patrick found a restaurant a short walk, but Regina was getting hangry, so we opted for the food trucks outside. I have such good memories of the food trucks from the last time Patrick and I were there, but either I misremembered or the ones we chose were just not very good. Lesson learned. We thought the girls might want to go back to finish exploring the museum, but they wanted to move on. We had planned on the Spy Museum, but unfortunately I didn’t get them ahead of time, and there were no times available for the rest of our trip. There were SO many school groups from all over the country everywhere we went, so I assume they booked up all the times. We also weren’t able to get a time at Air and Space (we didn’t plan that one ahead of time because the girls claimed they weren’t super interested, but of course when we got to DC they changed their minds.

So, we headed to the National Museum of the American Indian. Patrick and I had lunch there last time (we met a friend of mine from high school), and I’ve been telling Regina about the fry bread taco. She is a kid who can always eat, so she devoured it! We got there well before the museum closed, but the cafe closed a couple minutes after we got there, so she just barely made it. She loved it and would eat it again anytime!

This museum is much smaller, so we told Regina she could explore there on her own. She is a kid who needs some alone time, and this trip was basically family time 24 hours a day, so we knew she needed to have some time to herself. While she did that, Maddy and Molly explored the children’s area. I honestly didn’t think they’d find this museum super interesting because it is pretty small, but they loved it. Our school does a big study on Native Americans in second grade and in fourth grade there is a focus on Florida history. So they loved seeing the things they’ve learned about in school come to life. (Although Regina did report that she thought some things were glossed over and she thought the museum was too nice to colonialists. and explorers!)

After the museum, we decided to hop onto the DC circulator for what I was most excited about – the monuments. The girls were all excited for the Lincoln Memorial so they could stand on the spot where Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. gave his I Have a Dream Speech.

Molly was given a really cool DC scavenger hunt book for her birthday, so at most of our major stops she had things in her book to check off. There were lots at the monuments, so it added a lot of fun and encouraged us to read more than we might have otherwise so we could complete her missions. She loved finding everything and marking it off in her book.

From the Lincoln Memorial we walked to the Korean War memorial (we discussed my Papaw who fought in Korea) and then to the Martin Luther King Jr. memorial.

From there, we walked to the World War II memorial. Patrick’s grandfather and my grandpa Truman both fought in it, and the girls found some quotes from President Harry Truman (since my maiden name is Truman, we always refer to him as Uncle Harry).

I think the memorial that struck the girls the most was the Vietnam Memorial. We talked a lot about how controversial the war was, how we didn’t really understand why we were fighting the war, how scary the draft was, and what that would be like today. As we walked along, the girls looked at the individual memorials people had left for their loved ones. We discussed how if this were happening now, it would be their cousins and their friends going to war – literal children being sent off to fight a war that they didn’t want to be in or understand at all.

When we had finished with the monuments, everyone was starving so we figured it was time for dinner. We found a pizza place and Ubered there – the pizza was delicious and it was the perfect end to our day!

Spring Break in our nation’s Capitol!

Patrick and I decided to gift the girls an experience for Christmas this year. Last year, we went on a spring break trip to North Carolina, but this year we opted for something a bit bigger. We’ve never done a whole family trip to a big city, so we decided we’d gift the girls a family trip to Washington D.C.

The girls chose the things they wanted to do, and then I created a rough daily schedule around that. Their choices were Ford’s Theatre, the monuments, and a tour of the Capitol Building. They also wanted to tour the White House, but unfortunately, there was no availability for the week we were there.

We debated flying vs. driving. Driving would allow us to make a few stops along the way, like checking out Mount Vernon and Colonial Williamsburg. But, it would make the trip longer, which would tack on extra dollars. And, we would already be filling our days in DC so we didn’t want to push it too much. We ended up finding a pretty good deal on flights through Southwest.

The only bad thing about a family of 5 is that when flying, some combination of us is most likely going to end up with a stranger in our row. My dad checked the flight going up and it was mostly full – fewer than 10 seats left to sell. So, Regina decided she’d go full-on angsty pre-teen to deter anyone from sitting in her row with dad (when we fly, it always ends up with Maddy, Molly, me in a row, and Patrick, Regina in a row). It worked!

I’ve flown a zillion times in my life (perks of a dad who worked for airlines for most of my childhood and early adulthood), but you guys – this landing was insane. There was a gale warning, which meant high winds. And flying into Reagan International, over the river, in a gale warning is an experience. Maddy and Molly gripped my hands so tightly, and kept asking if we were going to crash. I’ve never experienced a landing like that, but we made it safely, although a bit queasy.

After collecting our luggage and finding a taxi, we headed to our hotel. We booked a Residence Inn because we wanted more space and figured the free breakfast would save us a bit each day. The hotel was fine and in a decent area, but next time, I’d prefer to stay a bit closer to everything. The hotel was packed, and breakfast each morning was a zoo. We ended up Ubering more than we probably would have if we had just stayed at the Marriot or JW. We know better for next time!

We started our afternoon in DC with a walk on the wharf. Not the best idea when the temps are in the 40s and there are 30+ mph winds! Not only were we freezing, but poor Molly kept getting almost blown away! After a quick lunch at Shake Shack, we decided to head to see a few sites. The last time Patrick and I were there, we loved the Renwick Gallery, so since it is right by the White House and right by where we had dinner reservations, we decided to make that our first official stop.

I love this museum because it has modern art that is so unique and different, and a lot of it made the girls think. It was a lovely first stop on our trip.

Next up, we headed to the White House for some photos. Regina was a bit disappointed that President Biden hadn’t rolled out the red carpet for her, and since a tour was unavailable during our time there, this was as close as we could get.

After a quick stop in the White House gift shop, it was time to head to dinner. We made reservations at Old Ebbitt Grill because not only is it a hot spot, it’s where Patrick used to eat on his trips to DC to visit Father Dennis. We had early reservations, but the place was packed! Unfortunately, we didn’t get to sit in the main restaurant (which is lovely with its emerald green booths and the feeling that lots of history has happened in them). We were seated in their courtyard, which is inside the main building in what feels like a giant office complex. They still try to carry the feeling of the main restaurant out there, and it was much quieter.

My plan was originally to visit the monuments and memorials after dinner. But, it was SO cold and the wind was still insane. So, we decided not to push it, and after a lovely leisurely dinner, we decided to head back to our hotel and call it an early night with snacks from the hotel lobby and a slightly inappropriate movie (the girls love vacation daddy!). We knew we’d be up bright and early the next day anyway.

So many ways to be wicked

If your kids are anything like mine, they probably went through a Descendants obsession. The Disney TV movie had catchy songs, flashy costumes, and my girls were hooked. Especially Regina, who had all the Mal and Evie costumes and I’m pretty sure every book ever created. We have Mal’s spellbook (1 and 2!), Evie’s fashion book, the Auradon Prep yearbook, etc. So when our community theatre was doing a production of Descendants last summer we were pretty excited.

Maddy was the only one old enough to audition, but I got to be the rehearsal stage manager. Molly decided to tag along and name herself my assistant. Regina wanted to strictly be an audience member, but when a tech had a conflict, she stepped up to join my tech team for the final weekend of shows.

I love all of the shows I get to be a part of, and always say they are special (because they are!). But I did particularly love this one and this cast! It wasn’t a junior show, as most of the ones I work on are, so there were cast members over the age of 18. Maddy was actually the youngest cast member, having turned 12 the weekend of auditions.

I love getting to watch the process of a show coming together. From auditions (man, there are some big talents here in our little town) to watching the kids become their characters, and then getting to see everything come together to create a beautiful piece of art – it’s pretty fantastic!

At rehearsals, my job is to keep the kids on track and take down any blocking and other notes (props, questions, etc). Molly came to every rehearsal with me and took down diligent notes. She kept us on our toes for sure!

This show was the first one I attended all of dry tech for, as well. I’ve been a part of other shows, but this was the first one that I wasn’t handing the reins over completely to someone else. So on dry tech, I took down all the fly cues, my crew and I spiked all of the set pieces that would be moved on and off stage, and we fine-tuned the lights (as much as you can without actors). It’s long day, but once everything comes together it is so worth it!

Once it’s showtime, I hand over the show to a production stage manager. The thought of calling a show terrifies me! I can’t help but think I’d mess something up, then feel horribly guilty for calling the wrong fly cue and ruining the show. I much prefer to be backstage, moving set pieces, guiding the cast, and even quick changing (although that is a bit anxiety-inducing, too!). The production stage manager comes in on wet tech day and helps us get the show ready for dress rehearsals. Wet tech is a long day – the actors go through scenes slowly so we can capture the lights and be sure everything we set up on dry tech is going to work with actors in place.

The show ran for two weekends, and was a hit! The talent in this cast was phenomenal and everything about the show was so beautiful. I loved getting to see Maddy doing what she loves, and alongside the crazy talent in this show.

3 day weekend fun

We recently had a long weekend, and it had been a while since we’d had a theme day, so why not throw two in on the same weekend?

Since that Friday was Friday the 13th, we had to have a miniature theme night, with dinner and a movie. If you haven’t figured it out yet, I love to take a theme and run with it. And, as Patrick has pointed out, the girls still think it’s fun so I don’t plan to stop any time soon!

We had witch’s hair pasta (I dropped some black food coloring into the pasta water while it was boiling), bloody eyeballs (meatballs and marinara), and spider breadsticks (my parmesan breadsticks that we make at least once a week). We had some Halloween baking kits left over from Halloween, so I made ghost and mummy cake bites and a blood splatter cake. The girls had fun decorating their skull cookies.

After dinner we settled in for family movie night. We wanted something a bit scary, but not too scary since Molly is only 8. We settled on Super 8. The movie came out in 2011, but Patrick and I never saw it. We chose it because the description sounded like it had some Stranger Things vibes (and Regina is OBSESSED), but was mild enough for the whole family.

It was a great choice – everyone was a fan of the movie. Patrick and I were immediately on board because Kyle Chandler starred – who doesn’t love Coach (we LOVED Friday Night Lights!). The girls loved the kid characters and the supernatural/scary element to the story. It was the perfect Friday the 13th movie!

The next day, we finally held Regina’s birthday party. This poor girl was born two weeks before Christmas, and trying to get parties planned and friends who can attend can be difficult. This year, her sisters being in a show that ran the first two weekends of December threw an added wrench in. Regina, as the middle child, is the most flexible and willing to compromise, so she agreed to have her party with friends in January.

Because she’s Stranger Things-obsessed and was turning 11, she insisted she go full 80s style and have her party at our local skating rink. It was a great time, surrounded by some of her favorite friends. Everyone enjoyed two hours of skating, and then came back to our house for pizza and fun. A car full of 10 and 11 year old girls is quite something!

Regina worked hard on her cake, and I have to say, she did a fantastic job!

The next day was Maddy’s Hamilton day (see my previous blog on that). But Monday, we had no plans, so Molly asked if I could throw together a quick theme day. Why not have two in one weekend?!

Molly went through my binder of ideas and settled on The Greatest Showman. We love a good musical, and while the movie itself isn’t the best, who doesn’t love those songs?! I’m down for anything Hugh Jackman is in, and the rest of the cast is pretty amazing. Not many can sing like Keala Settle – those pipes are something else! And Maddy loves that Timothy Hughes is the strongman – we saw him on Broadway in Frozen and have followed his career since. We adore him!

So, we settled in for a circus day. We had circus food for lunch and snacks – circus animal cookies, circus peanuts, soft pretzels, corn dogs, kettle corn, cotton candy, etc. I had a couple of crafts up my sleeve for them, too.

I found gold glitter canvases at the Dollar Tree, which were perfect for some art projects. The girls chose their favorite song lyrics and wrote them on the canvases. All three chose This is Me.

Next, they made their own ringleader tophats out of paper, and A Million Dreams wishing jars. The jars are mason jars that they decorated and wrote some lyrics to the song on, and then we will fill them with fairy lights to be wishing jars at bedtime.

The Greatest Showman is a great family movie with great themes (granted, it probably, okay, definitely glosses over the fact that PT Barnum was profiting off of people who were cast off from society and maybe wasn’t as kindhearted to them as the movie made it seem). I love the lyrics to This is Me, and hope that I’m raising girls who carry this anthem with them:

When the sharpest words wanna cut me down
I’m gonna send a flood, gonna drown ’em out
I am brave, I am bruised
I am who I’m meant to be, this is me

And the world’s gonna know my name…

Thanks to Santa, Maddy and I recently got another theater day together. We didn’t immediately fall in love with Hamilton the way the rest of the world seemed to after it debuted. I thought the concept was interesting, but didn’t really start listening to the soundtrack until Maddy did. I don’t know why it took me so long to fall in love with it – probably because we were too busy with Dear Evan Hansen! But, it’s definitely one of our favorites now.

When Hamilton debuted on Disney+ we held a family viewing party. The original Broadway cast of Hamilton may be one of the most talented ever. When Lin Manuel Miranda is the least talented of the bunch, you know you’ve got a phenomenal cast.

Maddy has been dying to see Hamilton ever since, but they’re often hard tickets to come by. Luckily, Santa made it happen and Maddy let me tag along.

The last show we saw was Hadestown, and well, that may be my favorite thing I’ve ever seen. We weren’t sure how the touring cast of Hamilton would compare to the original. While there is nothing like that cast ( I mean, really, it’s just not fair to anyone ever again for the rest of time that all those people got to perform together and create such a masterpiece), we were happy that this cast could keep up with the original.

While there is nothing like Phillipa Soo or Daveed Diggs, this touring cast definitely does the show justice. When we got to the theater, we noticed that one of the understudies was going to be Aaron Burr. My favorite song of the show is Wait for It, so I was curious how this performer would do. But you guys, Neptune was the best part of the show! He was by far my favorite vocalist. I have no idea how he does it – as a swing, he has to know several lead roles and be ready to go on for any of them. That is mindblowing to me – he could be Thomas Jefferson one day and Aaron Burr the next. These are some of the most difficult roles to play, and if what we saw is any indication, Neptune deserves a long and successful career. Maddy still claims I bruised her arm from gripping too tightly during Wait for It.

Having seen the Disney+ recorded version of the original show, I wasn’t sure what to expect. But, as usual, live theater just gets you in the feels in a way that watching on TV can’t. The tears you guys – I did NOT expect to cry as much as I did. I didn’t think I’d make it through Dear Theodosia. Sitting next to my girl, listening to two parents sing about their love for their children…ugh, so many tears. And then Quiet Uptown – so quietly powerful and moving. It definitely solidifies that Eliza is the heroine of this story.

And can we talk about Alexander – I mean, he was kind of just a conceited jerk, right? Maddy and I had an interesting discussion at dinner. What is more unforgivable – cheating on your wife, or knowing your son is going off to a dual to probably die and not trying to stop him? Being in love with your sister-in-law? Being so focused on your reputation that you put your marriage at risk (over and over again)? And eventually, being so focused on yourself and your place in history that it leads to your death?

As with any good theater piece, Hamilton makes you feel and question and cry. To do that with a subject we’re all relatively familiar with is an exceptional thing.

Hamilton should definitely be added to the list of shows you need to see once in your lifetime. I was once again happy to have another theater day with my best biggest girl.

To the world we dream about, and the one we live in now

Maddy and I discovered the musical Hadestown not long after it premiered on Broadway. The music is so beautiful, and if you are familiar with Greek mythology, you know the story already. Anais Mitchell wrote beautiful lyrics and music to retell the story of Orpheus and Eurydice. The music is some of my very favorite – it’s haunting and lovely and just so fantastic. So, when I got a notice on a pre-sale deal for tickets to Hadestown at the Straz Center, I knew Maddy and I needed them!

I love getting to have one-on-one time with each girl, and Maddy and I have gotten some great quality time at shows recently. Since she’s older, she can see more variety than her sisters (and let’s be honest, Reg isn’t really into these shows the same way and quite frankly, prefers one-on-one time with daddy to mommy anyway). So, Maddy and I made a day of Hadestown. We started with lunch at Armature works and a stroll along the Riverwalk before heading into the show.

The original Broadway cast of Hadestown is pretty phenomenal. It doesn’t get much better than Andre DeShields as Hermes and Patrick Page as Hades. But you guys, this touring cast was FANTASTIC!

If you’re unfamiliar with Hadestown, it blends the stories of Hades and Persephone with that of Orpheus and Eurydice to tell a beautiful and heartbreaking story. Orpheus sees and falls in love with Eurydice, who is skeptical of him. He wins her over with his storytelling through his music and makes her see the way the world can be. His music tells the story of Hades and Persephone – Hades fell in love with Persephone and convinced her to live with him in the underworld. But, with Persephone gone, the world began to die. Hades was convinced to let Persephone spend part of the year up above, which is where we get seasons from.

While Persephone is above, the people celebrate and the joy is palpable in the song “Livin’ It Up On Top.” But that joy can’t last, as the train arrives to return Persephone to Hadestown, much to her dismay. Eurydice is intrigued by the idea of Hadestown, where someone provides (even if it’s not ideal). While Orpheus is focused on creating his music to bring spring back, he doesn’t notice that Eurydice is slipping away from him.

Hades is on the hunt for someone who will appreciate what he has built and finds a cold, tired and hungry Eurydice. She’s ready to lay down and let someone else take over, and follows Hades to the underworld. When Orpheus realizes where she has gone, Hermes tells him of a back way to go to get to Hadestown to find his love. Eurydice has already realized she made a mistake, but she has signed a contract with Hades.

Orpheus sings a song to remind Hades of his strong love for Persephone, which he has lost sight of along the way. This moves Hades, and he’s left with a decision to make. He can let Eurydice leave with Orpheus, but that would make him lose his control over his “factory.” He can force her to stay, but then she becomes the martyr of the story. So Hades makes this decision – does Orpheus love Eurydice enough to completely trust her? The couple can leave, but only if Orpheus leads and never turns back to be sure Eurydice is behind him. If he turns to make certain she’s still there, he seals her fate and she belongs to Hades forever.

Orpheus allows the voices in his head to convince him that he’s on this journey alone – why would Eurydice follow him? He makes it until the very end, when doubt overtakes him and he turns – Eurydice has been there all along, right behind him. But because he let his doubt take hold, he has now condemned her to a life in Hadestown.

Maddy and I LOVED this show. So much that we are still talking about it regularly. The music is spectacular – the harmonies are haunting and the melodies are stunning. The band is on stage the entire show and becomes part of the show, which adds a unique element. The lighting plays such an important role in the storytelling and it is some of the best lightwork I’ve seen.

Nathan Lee Graham is a delight as Hermes. Just the right amount of showmanship and just overall, such a joy to watch narrate this story. But you guys, I cannot tell you enough wonderful things about Chibueze Ihuoma as Orpheus. In my mind, Orpheus is not just confident in his abilities, he’s also super earnest and truly believes he can make the world a better place. And holy cow, did Chibueze embody my image of Orpheus perfectly! I was blown away by his performance. Wait for Me might be my favorite musical moment I have ever experienced. Between his stunning portrayal, the set, and the lighting design, it was perfect.

Honestly, though, this entire touring cast is pretty remarkable. Hannah Whitley played a beautiful Eurydice and made you feel her hunger and despair. Lindsay Hailes brought the joy and then sorrow of Persephone. And man, the voices of the fates! They add such a layer of depth that is so impactful. But every single cast member, including the band, work seamlessly together to create something so beautiful and rich.

Maddy was thrilled that the stagedoor was available after the show, so she could meet some of the cast and tell them how spectacular they were!

Maddy and I were blown away. I would see Hadestown over and over and over again. If you get a chance to see it at a city near you, do yourself a favor and do it!